The Chronic Consumer

I am constantly amazed by what some boyfriends or husbands try to pass off as Christmas gifts each year. Let me tell you right now that small appliances, kitchen gadgets, or anything else that is remotely connected to housework or cooking should never be given as a present — unless your significant other is studying to be a gourmet chef and really wants these items.

Nor should you buy the woman in your life anything remotely related to cars, such as a spoiler, rims, window tinting or auto insurance. Sorry, but just because you think these items are hot, it doesn’t mean your girlfriend or wife will! The same thing applies to tools as well.

And finally, do not get your better half something related to your favorite hobby and try to justify the purchase by saying that you two could spend more time together. For example, if you like fishing, but your wife of 10 years hasn’t shown the least bit of interest, now is not the time to buy a new rod and reel for her — especially when you know these items will just end up in your possession when she refuses to get involved.

Instead of doing any of these things, why not take a moment to think about what the recipient likes to do, what she would like to get, and what she would actually enjoy using or owning. If you follow these guidelines, she’ll be sure to love whatever you buy!